In this short clip Trial Lawyer Jefferson Fisher quickly addresses the way we allow people to speak to us, what a better way is, and how to practice it. His idea is that in allowing ourselves to be treated / spoken to a certain way is giving the ‘controls’ to someone where you and they would both be better served by a better understanding of how to get the best out of you, for the benefit of both, if they are willing.
It is about Expectation Management and Consent.
This the work of Jefferson Fisher: Trial Lawyer and Internet Educator on Emotional Competency.